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Say thank you when helped or given something

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When to use this goal

For early communicators who take items or accept help without any acknowledgment, which makes peers less likely to offer again. Base the choice on communication mode. A sign, a device message, or a word all count.

Baseline
Record 5 giving or helping events per day for 3 days and note whether any acknowledgment occurred, in what mode, and whether it followed a prompt. Note the sign or word the family uses at home.
Tips
An opportunity is any item, help, or turn given directly to the student. Score correct when an acknowledgment form occurs within 5 seconds in any mode, before a prompt. Peers and adults should respond warmly ("You're welcome"). Avoid withholding items to force a thank you; the expectant pause is brief and the item is given regardless.
Limits
Many brief opportunities make counting easy but also easy to over-drill; spread them across the day. A thank you is a social convention, not a measure of appreciation; keep progress reports about the communicative act. Cultural norms for thanking vary; align with the family.

Original IEP Atlas template based on general measurement principles; not copied from any goal bank. ID se-com-017.

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Student

How the goal refers to the student

Skill

What the student will do

Something an adult can see, count or time.

Condition

When or under what conditions

Support

Support allowed

Criterion

Number of opportunities in which the behavior is demonstrated, out of a fixed number.

Sample numbers. Replace them with the student's data.

Criterion wording

Data collection

Each planned or naturally occurring opportunity is recorded as correct/independent, prompted, or not demonstrated.

How often data are collected
Mastery rule

How many measurements must meet the criterion.

Timeframe

Timeframe

Goal

By the annual IEP review date, when an adult or peer hands them an item, helps them, or gives them a turn, the student will say, sign, or select "thank you" directed to the person within 5 seconds independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected daily during snack and group activities.

Baseline: 1 of 5 opportunities.

  • Condition
  • Observable behavior
  • Criterion
  • Measurement method

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Measurability check11 of 11 met
  • Met: Observable behavior. Stated as an action.

  • Met: Condition. Stated.

  • Met: Unit fits the behavior. Opportunities fits this behavior.

  • Met: Explicit criterion. Number and unit stated.

  • Met: Mastery rule and schedule. Both stated.

  • Met: Method produces the metric. Opportunity (trial) recording gives opportunities data.

  • Met: Review timeframe. Stated.

  • Met: Baseline and target compatible. Same unit, change in the right direction.

  • Met: Aligned with area of need. Still about Functional Communication.

  • Met: Level of support. Defined.

  • Met: Blanks filled in. Nothing left to fill in.

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Short-term objectives (optional)

When are objectives required?

Required for students on alternate assessments (34 CFR §300.320(a)(2)(ii)); some states require them for everyone.

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Area of need
Social-Emotional & Communication - Functional Communication
Baseline
1 of 5 opportunities.
Annual goal385 characters
By the annual IEP review date, when an adult or peer hands them an item, helps them, or gives them a turn, the student will say, sign, or select "thank you" directed to the person within 5 seconds independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected daily during snack and group activities.
Timeframe
By the annual IEP review date
Condition
When an adult or peer hands them an item, helps them, or gives them a turn
Behavior
The student will say, sign, or select "thank you" directed to the person within 5 seconds independently
Criteria
In at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days
Evaluation method
Opportunity-by-opportunity data
Schedule
Daily during snack and group activities

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Matching data sheet

Opportunity tracker. One box per opportunity in each session.

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