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Tell a peer to stop when they do something unwanted

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When to use this goal

For young students who cry, hit, run, or freeze when a peer takes their item, touches them, or gets too close, and who do not yet say "stop." Present levels and observation during play decide fit. Accept speech, sign, a stop gesture, or a device message.

Baseline
Observe play and centers for several days and record each time a peer does something the student objects to, with the student's response (says or signs stop, cries, hits, leaves, no response). Note which peers and situations occur most. Ask the family what the student does at home with siblings.
Tips
An opportunity is a peer action the student objects to (shown by any visible reaction). Score correct when the student directs a stop message to the peer within 10 seconds, before hitting, grabbing, or crying. Teach peers to respond to the message by stopping, and adults must back the message up every time. "Stop" is a consent and safety skill; never score it as rudeness.
Limits
Opportunities depend on peer behavior and are often missed by observers; planned practice fills the gap but must stay gentle. The goal measures the message, not whether the peer stopped; peer responsiveness needs teaching too. Does not fit situations involving aggression, which call for adult intervention.

Original IEP Atlas template based on general measurement principles; not copied from any goal bank. ID se-sa-020.

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Student

How the goal refers to the student

Skill

What the student will do

Something an adult can see, count or time.

Condition

When or under what conditions

Support

Support allowed

Criterion

Number of opportunities in which the behavior is demonstrated, out of a fixed number.

Sample numbers. Replace them with the student's data.

Criterion wording

Data collection

Each planned or naturally occurring opportunity is recorded as correct/independent, prompted, or not demonstrated.

How often data are collected
Mastery rule

How many measurements must meet the criterion.

Timeframe

Timeframe

Goal

By the annual IEP review date, when a peer takes their item, touches them, or does something they do not want during play or centers, the student will tell the peer to stop using a word, sign, stop gesture, or device message (such as "stop," "no," "I don't like that") independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected twice weekly during play and centers.

Baseline: 1 of 5 opportunities.

  • Condition
  • Observable behavior
  • Criterion
  • Measurement method

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Measurability check11 of 11 met
  • Met: Observable behavior. Stated as an action.

  • Met: Condition. Stated.

  • Met: Unit fits the behavior. Opportunities fits this behavior.

  • Met: Explicit criterion. Number and unit stated.

  • Met: Mastery rule and schedule. Both stated.

  • Met: Method produces the metric. Opportunity (trial) recording gives opportunities data.

  • Met: Review timeframe. Stated.

  • Met: Baseline and target compatible. Same unit, change in the right direction.

  • Met: Aligned with area of need. Still about Self-Advocacy.

  • Met: Level of support. Defined.

  • Met: Blanks filled in. Nothing left to fill in.

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Short-term objectives (optional)

When are objectives required?

Required for students on alternate assessments (34 CFR §300.320(a)(2)(ii)); some states require them for everyone.

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Area of need
Social-Emotional & Communication - Self-Advocacy
Baseline
1 of 5 opportunities.
Annual goal454 characters
By the annual IEP review date, when a peer takes their item, touches them, or does something they do not want during play or centers, the student will tell the peer to stop using a word, sign, stop gesture, or device message (such as "stop," "no," "I don't like that") independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected twice weekly during play and centers.
Timeframe
By the annual IEP review date
Condition
When a peer takes their item, touches them, or does something they do not want during play or centers
Behavior
The student will tell the peer to stop using a word, sign, stop gesture, or device message (such as "stop," "no," "I don't like that") independently
Criteria
In at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days
Evaluation method
Opportunity-by-opportunity data
Schedule
Twice weekly during play and centers

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Matching data sheet

Opportunity tracker. One box per opportunity in each session.

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