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Social-Emotional & Communication IEP goals for Intellectual Disability

163 social-emotional & communication templates across 9 skills: relationships, boundaries & personal safety, functional communication, play & social participation, requesting help, social awareness & perspective taking, self-advocacy, peer interaction, conflict resolution, emotional regulation. Each opens in the builder with a matching data sheet.

163 templates · 9 skills · Pre-K, K–2, 3–5, 6–8, 9–12 · How we write and review goals

Top skills

The 8 most relevant skills, with sample goals. Numbers are illustrative; set targets from the student's own baseline.

Relationships, Boundaries & Personal Safety Social-Emotional & Communication

30 goals
  • 3-5, 6-8Percent accuracy

    Sort public and private places

    Public and private places

    By the annual IEP review date, given 12 photos of everyday places at school, home, and in the community, and a two-column board labeled public and private, the student will sort each place as public or private and say one reason independently with at least 90% accuracy on place photos, in 3 of 4 consecutive weekly probes, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly.

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  • 3-5, 6-8Percent accuracy

    Tell a safe secret from an unsafe secret

    Safe and unsafe secrets

    By the annual IEP review date, given 10 short scenarios read aloud about secrets and surprises (such as a birthday surprise, or an older student saying not to tell an adult about a touch), the student will say whether each secret is safe to keep or should be told to a trusted adult, and give a reason independently with 100% accuracy on secret and surprise scenarios, in 3 of 4 consecutive weekly probes, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly.

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Functional Communication Social-Emotional & Communication

26 goals
  • PK, K-2, 3-5Opportunities

    Request preferred items or activities with two-symbol messages

    Requesting with multi-symbol messages in classroom routines (AAC)

    By the annual IEP review date, with access to their communication device during snack, play, and choice routines, the student will request a preferred item or activity by combining two symbols (such as "want bubbles," "more music," "go swing") independently in at least 8 of 10 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected three times per week.

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  • K-2, 3-5, 6-8Opportunities

    Request a break using a communicative response

    Requesting a break (functional communication replacement)

    By the annual IEP review date, when presented with a demanding or non-preferred task, the student will request a break by handing a break card, selecting BREAK on their communication device, signing, or saying "break, please" independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected daily during the activities identified in the FBA.

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Play & Social Participation Social-Emotional & Communication

22 goals
  • PKDuration

    Play with a toy the way it is designed for several minutes

    Functional play with toys

    By the annual IEP review date, during free play with a set of 3 familiar toys that have a clear action (such as a car, a shape sorter, a toy phone), the student will play with a toy using its designed action (such as rolling the car, putting shapes in the sorter, holding the phone to an ear) independently for at least 5 minutes, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by duration recording collected three times per week during free play.

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  • PK, K-2Duration

    Play next to peers with similar materials

    Parallel play near peers

    By the annual IEP review date, during centers when peers are playing with the same type of materials (such as blocks, playdough, cars), the student will play within arm's reach of a peer using similar materials independently for at least 6 minutes, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by duration recording collected three times per week during centers.

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Requesting Help Social-Emotional & Communication

17 goals
  • K-2, 3-5, 6-8Opportunities

    Request help when stuck during independent work

    Requesting help when stuck during independent work

    By the annual IEP review date, when they are unable to continue an independent work task, the student will request help from an adult by raising a hand, placing a help card on the desk, or saying or signing "help" independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected three times per week during independent work.

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  • PK, K-2, 3-5Opportunities

    Request help with a functional task using any communication mode

    Requesting help with functional tasks (including AAC)

    By the annual IEP review date, with access to their communication device or system when they need adult help with a task during snack, arrival, or art (such as a closed container, a material out of reach), the student will request help by selecting HELP on their communication device, signing HELP, handing a help card to an adult, or saying "help" independently in at least 8 of 10 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected daily during snack and arrival routines.

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Social Awareness & Perspective Taking Social-Emotional & Communication

19 goals
  • PK, K-2Percent accuracy

    Name basic emotions in photos of people

    Naming basic emotions in others

    By the annual IEP review date, given 10 photos of children in everyday situations showing happy, sad, mad, or scared, and a choice board of 4 emotion symbols, the student will name or point to the emotion that fits the person in each photo independently with at least 80% accuracy on emotion photos, across 3 consecutive sessions, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly.

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  • PK, K-2Opportunities

    Pick what a peer likes for them

    Others have different likes

    By the annual IEP review date, during a snack or play game, after a peer or puppet has said which of 2 items they like, when the adult asks the student to give that person one, the student will give or name the item the other person said they like (not the student's own favorite) independently in at least 7 of 10 opportunities, across 3 consecutive sessions, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected twice weekly.

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Self-Advocacy Social-Emotional & Communication

17 goals
  • 3-5, 6-8, 9-12Rubric score

    Describe own learning strengths, needs, and helpful supports

    Describing own strengths, needs, and supports

    By the annual IEP review date, when asked by an adult to describe themselves as a learner during a scheduled self-advocacy interview, the student will describe their learning strengths, needs, and helpful supports independently, earning a score of at least 6 out of 8 on a 4-row self-advocacy statement rubric scored 0–2 per row, on 3 of 4 consecutive monthly probes, as measured by a defined scoring rubric collected monthly.

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  • PK, K-2, 3-5Opportunities

    State a preference or decline an offer

    Stating preferences and declining

    By the annual IEP review date, when offered a choice of activities, materials, or foods during a structured routine, the student will state a preference or decline the offer using a respectful protest form (such as "no thank you," "I want something else," shaking the head, or a "stop/no" symbol) independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected twice weekly during choice, snack, and play routines.

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Peer Interaction Social-Emotional & Communication

16 goals
  • K-2, 3-5, 6-8, 9-12Duration

    Participate in a shared activity with a peer

    Sustaining shared play or leisure

    By the annual IEP review date, during a play or leisure activity based on the student's interests with one or more peers, the student will participate in the shared activity with a peer (such as building together, playing a game, trading turns on a video game, looking at a book together) independently for at least 8 minutes, across 3 consecutive observed sessions, as measured by duration recording collected twice weekly.

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  • 3-5, 6-8, 9-12Opportunities

    Introduce themselves to a new peer

    Introducing oneself to a new peer

    By the annual IEP review date, when placed in a new group, class, or club with peers they do not know, the student will introduce themselves by stating their name and asking the peer's name or one getting-to-know-you question independently in at least 3 of 4 opportunities, across 2 consecutive monthly probe sets, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected monthly through planned mixers plus natural new-peer events.

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Conflict Resolution Social-Emotional & Communication

6 goals
  • K-2, 3-5, 6-8Opportunities

    Apologize after hurting or upsetting a peer

    Apologizing after causing harm or an accident

    By the annual IEP review date, when they have accidentally or intentionally hurt, bumped, or upset a peer, or damaged a peer's work or item, the student will apologize to the peer by naming what happened and offering to make it right (such as "Sorry I knocked it over. Want help rebuilding it?") independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive weeks, as measured by direct observation collected weekly, combining observed events, staff reports, and role-play probes.

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  • K-2, 3-5, 6-8Opportunities

    Leave the area and tell an adult when a peer becomes aggressive

    Leaving and reporting when a peer becomes aggressive

    By the annual IEP review date, when a peer hits, pushes, grabs, or threatens them during unstructured times, the student will move away from the peer and tell the nearest adult what happened independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 4 consecutive weeks, as measured by direct observation collected weekly, combining staff incident reports and role-play probes.

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All 9 skills

Every skill with goals for this group, by area. The number is how many of its goals are tagged here.

Self-advocacy, requesting help, peer interaction, conflict resolution, and regulation. Goals for students with an intellectual disability focus on skills that carry into daily life: functional academics, routines, communication, self-care, and community participation. Task-analysis checklists and opportunity data make small, real steps visible.

Matching data sheets

Each goal above links to the blank sheet built for its measure. These are the sheets this set of goals uses:

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of goals fit students with an intellectual disability?

Functional academics (money, time, reading signs and schedules), daily living and self-care routines, functional communication, school and community independence, and vocational readiness for older students. Academic goals are written at the student's instructional level.

How do task-analysis goals work?

The routine is broken into ordered steps, and the data sheet records which steps the student completes independently. The criterion is a number of steps (for example, 9 of 10 steps) across several sessions.

How are social-emotional goals measured for students with intellectual disability?

By opportunities in which the student used a taught skill, frequency of a behavior during a period, latency to use a strategy after a cue, or a rubric for multi-part skills. The behavior is defined so two observers would agree.

Should the goal name the strategy?

Yes, when the strategy is observable: 'request a break using a card' or 'state the problem and one solution'. That makes the goal countable and tells staff what to teach.

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