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School psychologist Social-Emotional & Communication IEP goals

232 social-emotional & communication templates tagged for the school psychologist or counselor, across 9 skills: social awareness & perspective taking, emotional regulation, conflict resolution, relationships, boundaries & personal safety, self-advocacy, peer interaction, play & social participation, requesting help, functional communication. Each opens in the builder with a matching data sheet.

232 templates · 9 skills · Pre-K, K–2, 3–5, 6–8, 9–12 · How we write and review goals

Top skills

The 8 most relevant skills, with sample goals. Numbers are illustrative; set targets from the student's own baseline.

Social Awareness & Perspective Taking Social-Emotional & Communication

37 goals
  • PK, K-2Percent accuracy

    Name basic emotions in photos of people

    Naming basic emotions in others

    By the annual IEP review date, given 10 photos of children in everyday situations showing happy, sad, mad, or scared, and a choice board of 4 emotion symbols, the student will name or point to the emotion that fits the person in each photo independently with at least 80% accuracy on emotion photos, across 3 consecutive sessions, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly.

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  • PK, K-2Opportunities

    Notice when a classmate is sad or hurt

    Noticing a peer who is upset

    By the annual IEP review date, during free play, centers, or the playground, when a nearby peer cries, falls, or shows they are upset, the student will respond to the upset peer by going over, asking "Okay?", bringing a comfort item, or telling an adult independently in at least 3 of 5 opportunities, on 4 of 5 observed days, as measured by direct observation collected 3 times per week.

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Emotional Regulation Social-Emotional & Communication

58 goals
  • K-2, 3-5, 6-8, 9-12Latency

    Begin a chosen regulation strategy soon after a known trigger

    Starting a chosen regulation strategy after a trigger

    By the annual IEP review date, after a known trigger occurs (such as an unexpected loud noise, a difficult task, a correction), as identified in the student's regulation plan, the student will begin using To choose for the student: the strategy from their personal regulation menu (such as deep breathing, a squeeze ball, headphones, a movement break, the break area) independently within 60 seconds, on 4 of 5 consecutive observed opportunities, as measured by latency recording collected daily during the settings where triggers most often occur.

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  • PK, K-2, 3-5Opportunities

    Report their current emotion and intensity on a visual scale

    Identifying and reporting emotional state

    By the annual IEP review date, at scheduled check-ins during the school day using a visual emotion and intensity scale, the student will identify their current emotion and intensity level by pointing to, naming, signing, or selecting it on the visual scale independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected daily at 5 scheduled check-ins.

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See all 70 emotional regulation goals

Conflict Resolution Social-Emotional & Communication

33 goals
  • 3-5, 6-8, 9-12Opportunities

    Use a named problem-solving sequence when a disagreement occurs

    Using a problem-solving sequence during disagreements

    By the annual IEP review date, when a disagreement with a peer occurs during unstructured times, the student will use the steps of their taught problem-solving sequence (stop, say the problem, suggest a solution, agree or get an adult) independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive weeks, as measured by direct observation collected weekly, supplemented by staff incident notes.

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  • 3-5, 6-8, 9-12Opportunities

    State the problem using an I-message

    Stating the problem with an I-message

    By the annual IEP review date, when a peer does something the student objects to (such as takes their materials, cuts in line, interrupts), the student will state the problem using an I-message that names the situation and what they want (such as "I don't like it when you take my pencil. Please ask first.") independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive weekly data collection sessions, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly through role-play probes and observed conflicts.

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Relationships, Boundaries & Personal Safety Social-Emotional & Communication

27 goals
  • 3-5, 6-8Percent accuracy

    Sort public and private places

    Public and private places

    By the annual IEP review date, given 12 photos of everyday places at school, home, and in the community, and a two-column board labeled public and private, the student will sort each place as public or private and say one reason independently with at least 90% accuracy on place photos, in 3 of 4 consecutive weekly probes, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly.

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  • 3-5, 6-8Percent accuracy

    Tell a safe secret from an unsafe secret

    Safe and unsafe secrets

    By the annual IEP review date, given 10 short scenarios read aloud about secrets and surprises (such as a birthday surprise, or an older student saying not to tell an adult about a touch), the student will say whether each secret is safe to keep or should be told to a trusted adult, and give a reason independently with 100% accuracy on secret and surprise scenarios, in 3 of 4 consecutive weekly probes, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly.

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Self-Advocacy Social-Emotional & Communication

26 goals
  • 3-5, 6-8, 9-12Opportunities

    Request a listed accommodation when a task calls for it

    Requesting IEP accommodations in the moment

    By the annual IEP review date, when given a classroom task or assessment for which one of their IEP accommodations applies, the student will request the accommodation by naming it to the teacher (spoken, written, signed, or shown on an accommodation card) independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive weekly data collection sessions, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly across at least two class periods.

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  • 3-5, 6-8, 9-12Rubric score

    Describe own learning strengths, needs, and helpful supports

    Describing own strengths, needs, and supports

    By the annual IEP review date, when asked by an adult to describe themselves as a learner during a scheduled self-advocacy interview, the student will describe their learning strengths, needs, and helpful supports independently, earning a score of at least 6 out of 8 on a 4-row self-advocacy statement rubric scored 0–2 per row, on 3 of 4 consecutive monthly probes, as measured by a defined scoring rubric collected monthly.

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Peer Interaction Social-Emotional & Communication

30 goals
  • PK, K-2, 3-5Frequency

    Initiate interactions with peers during recess

    Initiating interactions with peers

    By the annual IEP review date, during a 20-minute recess period, the student will initiate an interaction with a peer (such as greeting, inviting to play, commenting, showing or offering an item) using speech, sign, AAC, or gesture independently at least 3 times per 20-minute recess period, across 3 consecutive observed recess periods, as measured by frequency recording collected twice weekly.

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  • K-2, 3-5Task-analysis steps

    Join a group activity already in progress

    Joining an ongoing group activity

    By the annual IEP review date, when they choose to join a group of peers already playing during recess or free choice, the student will join the group using a joining-in routine with no adult reminder beforehand, performing at least 4 of 5 steps independently, across 3 consecutive observed opportunities, as measured by a task-analysis checklist collected twice weekly.

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Play & Social Participation Social-Emotional & Communication

11 goals
  • K-2, 3-5Latency

    Choose and start a recess activity within a few minutes

    Choosing an activity at recess

    By the annual IEP review date, at the start of a 20-minute recess period, the student will choose a recess activity and begin it (such as join a game, go to equipment, start a solo activity from their list) independently within 3 minutes, on 4 of 5 consecutive recess periods, as measured by latency recording collected daily at recess.

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  • K-2, 3-5Duration

    Play a playground game with peers for several minutes

    Participating in playground games

    By the annual IEP review date, during recess when peers are playing a game with simple rules (tag, four square, kickball, a chasing game), the student will participate in the game with peers by taking turns, running, or playing their position independently for at least 8 minutes, across 3 consecutive observed recess periods, as measured by duration recording collected twice weekly at recess.

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Requesting Help Social-Emotional & Communication

5 goals
  • 9-12Opportunities

    Attend a help session when a grade or assignment is at risk

    Using school help resources

    By the annual IEP review date, when their grade in a class drops below the threshold agreed with their case manager, or an assignment is more than one week late, the student will attend a help session (office hours, tutoring, resource period, or review session) and ask the staff member about the specific class or assignment independently in at least 3 of 4 opportunities, across 2 consecutive grading periods, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly during grade reviews, confirmed with sign-in sheets or staff.

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  • 3-5, 6-8, 9-12Opportunities

    Accept offered help or decline it with a reason

    Accepting or declining offered help

    By the annual IEP review date, when an adult or peer offers help during class work, the student will respond to the offer by accepting it (such as "Yes, can you show me the first one?") or declining with a reason (such as "No thanks, I want to try it myself first") independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected twice weekly.

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All 9 skills

Every skill with goals for this group, by area. The number is how many of its goals are tagged here.

Self-advocacy, requesting help, peer interaction, conflict resolution, and regulation. This goal bank for school psychologists and counselors covers emotional regulation, coping strategies, social problem solving, conflict resolution, and self-advocacy. Goals describe an observable use of a strategy and are measured with opportunities, frequency, or rubrics that classroom staff can also use.

Matching data sheets

Each goal above links to the blank sheet built for its measure. These are the sheets this set of goals uses:

Frequently asked questions

How do you make a counseling goal measurable?

Name the strategy the student will use (take a break, use a calm-down plan, state the problem and one solution), the trigger or context, and a criterion in opportunities or frequency. 'Will improve coping' is not measurable; 'will use a taught calming strategy in 4 of 5 observed opportunities' is.

Who collects data on social-emotional goals?

The counselor or psychologist records session data, and classroom staff record use of the skill in the setting where it matters. The goal should say which setting counts.

Should a counseling goal reference a specific program?

No. Programs and curricula belong in the services section. The goal describes the student's behavior so any provider could measure it.

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