Social-Emotional & Communication IEP goals for Autism
377 social-emotional & communication templates across 9 skills: functional communication, social awareness & perspective taking, peer interaction, play & social participation, emotional regulation, relationships, boundaries & personal safety, conflict resolution, requesting help, self-advocacy. Each opens in the builder with a matching data sheet.
377 templates · 9 skills · Pre-K, K–2, 3–5, 6–8, 9–12 · How we write and review goals
Top skills
The 8 most relevant skills, with sample goals. Numbers are illustrative; set targets from the student's own baseline.
Functional Communication Social-Emotional & Communication
Request preferred items or activities with two-symbol messages
Requesting with multi-symbol messages in classroom routines (AAC)
By the annual IEP review date, with access to their communication device during snack, play, and choice routines, the student will request a preferred item or activity by combining two symbols (such as "want bubbles," "more music," "go swing") independently in at least 8 of 10 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected three times per week.
Request a break using a communicative response
Requesting a break (functional communication replacement)
By the annual IEP review date, when presented with a demanding or non-preferred task, the student will request a break by handing a break card, selecting BREAK on their communication device, signing, or saying "break, please" independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected daily during the activities identified in the FBA.
Social Awareness & Perspective Taking Social-Emotional & Communication
Name basic emotions in photos of people
Naming basic emotions in others
By the annual IEP review date, given 10 photos of children in everyday situations showing happy, sad, mad, or scared, and a choice board of 4 emotion symbols, the student will name or point to the emotion that fits the person in each photo independently with at least 80% accuracy on emotion photos, across 3 consecutive sessions, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly.
Notice when a classmate is sad or hurt
Noticing a peer who is upset
By the annual IEP review date, during free play, centers, or the playground, when a nearby peer cries, falls, or shows they are upset, the student will respond to the upset peer by going over, asking "Okay?", bringing a comfort item, or telling an adult independently in at least 3 of 5 opportunities, on 4 of 5 observed days, as measured by direct observation collected 3 times per week.
Peer Interaction Social-Emotional & Communication
Initiate interactions with peers during recess
Initiating interactions with peers
By the annual IEP review date, during a 20-minute recess period, the student will initiate an interaction with a peer (such as greeting, inviting to play, commenting, showing or offering an item) using speech, sign, AAC, or gesture independently at least 3 times per 20-minute recess period, across 3 consecutive observed recess periods, as measured by frequency recording collected twice weekly.
Respond to peers' greetings, questions, and invitations
Responding to peer initiations
By the annual IEP review date, when a peer greets them, asks a question, or invites them to play during unstructured times, the student will respond to the peer with a related word, sign, gesture, device message, or action (such as waving back, answering, joining the activity) independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive observed sessions, as measured by direct observation collected twice weekly.
Play & Social Participation Social-Emotional & Communication
Play with a toy the way it is designed for several minutes
Functional play with toys
By the annual IEP review date, during free play with a set of 3 familiar toys that have a clear action (such as a car, a shape sorter, a toy phone), the student will play with a toy using its designed action (such as rolling the car, putting shapes in the sorter, holding the phone to an ear) independently for at least 5 minutes, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by duration recording collected three times per week during free play.
Play next to peers with similar materials
Parallel play near peers
By the annual IEP review date, during centers when peers are playing with the same type of materials (such as blocks, playdough, cars), the student will play within arm's reach of a peer using similar materials independently for at least 6 minutes, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by duration recording collected three times per week during centers.
Emotional Regulation Social-Emotional & Communication
Begin a chosen regulation strategy soon after a known trigger
Starting a chosen regulation strategy after a trigger
By the annual IEP review date, after a known trigger occurs (such as an unexpected loud noise, a difficult task, a correction), as identified in the student's regulation plan, the student will begin using To choose for the student: the strategy from their personal regulation menu (such as deep breathing, a squeeze ball, headphones, a movement break, the break area) independently within 60 seconds, on 4 of 5 consecutive observed opportunities, as measured by latency recording collected daily during the settings where triggers most often occur.
Return to the class activity after a regulation break
Returning to activity after a break
By the annual IEP review date, after a timed break in the designated break area ends, the student will return to the class activity and begin the next step of the assigned task independently within 2 minutes, on 4 of 5 consecutive breaks, as measured by latency recording collected daily.
Relationships, Boundaries & Personal Safety Social-Emotional & Communication
Sort public and private places
Public and private places
By the annual IEP review date, given 12 photos of everyday places at school, home, and in the community, and a two-column board labeled public and private, the student will sort each place as public or private and say one reason independently with at least 90% accuracy on place photos, in 3 of 4 consecutive weekly probes, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly.
Tell a safe secret from an unsafe secret
Safe and unsafe secrets
By the annual IEP review date, given 10 short scenarios read aloud about secrets and surprises (such as a birthday surprise, or an older student saying not to tell an adult about a touch), the student will say whether each secret is safe to keep or should be told to a trusted adult, and give a reason independently with 100% accuracy on secret and surprise scenarios, in 3 of 4 consecutive weekly probes, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly.
See all 30 relationships, boundaries & personal safety goals
Conflict Resolution Social-Emotional & Communication
Use a named problem-solving sequence when a disagreement occurs
Using a problem-solving sequence during disagreements
By the annual IEP review date, when a disagreement with a peer occurs during unstructured times, the student will use the steps of their taught problem-solving sequence (stop, say the problem, suggest a solution, agree or get an adult) independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive weeks, as measured by direct observation collected weekly, supplemented by staff incident notes.
State the problem using an I-message
Stating the problem with an I-message
By the annual IEP review date, when a peer does something the student objects to (such as takes their materials, cuts in line, interrupts), the student will state the problem using an I-message that names the situation and what they want (such as "I don't like it when you take my pencil. Please ask first.") independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive weekly data collection sessions, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected weekly through role-play probes and observed conflicts.
Requesting Help Social-Emotional & Communication
Request help when stuck during independent work
Requesting help when stuck during independent work
By the annual IEP review date, when they are unable to continue an independent work task, the student will request help from an adult by raising a hand, placing a help card on the desk, or saying or signing "help" independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive data collection days, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected three times per week during independent work.
Make a specific help request that names the problem
Making specific help requests
By the annual IEP review date, when they request help during independent or small-group work, the student will make a specific help request that names the step or part of the task they are stuck on and what they have tried independently in at least 4 of 5 opportunities, across 3 consecutive weeks of data, as measured by opportunity-by-opportunity data collected twice weekly.
All 9 skills
Every skill with goals for this group, by area. The number is how many of its goals are tagged here.
Self-advocacy, requesting help, peer interaction, conflict resolution, and regulation. The eligibility category is autism, but goals are written for the student, not the label: a goal names an observable skill, the setting it happens in, and how it will be counted. Many teams pair a communication or social goal with a regulation or routine goal so progress in one supports the other.
Matching data sheets
Each goal above links to the blank sheet built for its measure. These are the sheets this set of goals uses:
- Opportunity trackerRecords each opportunity as independent, prompted, or not demonstrated.Used by 210 goals here
- Rubric trackerScores each rubric criterion and totals the score for each sample.Used by 28 goals here
- Task-analysis checklistMarks each step of a routine as independent, with support, or not completed across sessions.Used by 30 goals here
- Latency trackerTimes the gap between a cue and the start of the response.Used by 22 goals here
- Frequency & rate trackerCounts a defined behavior during a fixed observation period. Calculates rate when time is recorded.Used by 26 goals here
- Duration trackerTimes how long a behavior lasts and compares it with the target duration.Used by 27 goals here
- Accuracy trackerNumber correct out of number attempted, with percent accuracy and support level.Used by 34 goals here
Frequently asked questions
What areas do IEP goals for autistic students usually cover?
Common areas are functional communication, pragmatic language, peer interaction, emotional regulation, flexibility with changes, and classroom routines. Academic goals are added when assessment shows a need. The IEP team chooses areas from the student's present levels, not from the diagnosis.
Should a goal mention autism?
No. A measurable goal describes what the student will do, under what conditions, and to what criterion. The disability category belongs in the eligibility section of the IEP, not in the goal sentence.
How are social-emotional goals measured for students with autism?
By opportunities in which the student used a taught skill, frequency of a behavior during a period, latency to use a strategy after a cue, or a rubric for multi-part skills. The behavior is defined so two observers would agree.
Should the goal name the strategy?
Yes, when the strategy is observable: 'request a break using a card' or 'state the problem and one solution'. That makes the goal countable and tells staff what to teach.
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